It's Not You Sis by Lela Fournet

This book contains real life events, concerning men living the "downlow" lifestyle. The majority of the women who have fallen victim to this life, have experience many of the same inconsistent behaviors from their men. These men tend to be emotionally unbalanced. The mood swings, the promiscuous behavior, the need to be around "their boys" at all times, have been consistently noted. I'm not saying that it's the same case for all men. I'm just saying that, the patterns and behaviors are like dejavu. You'd think that these women share the same man.